It's funny how the word 'truth' gets bandied around as if it makes what came before it fact for all people. It's funny how people also hide behind their 'truth' and use it as an excuse for their actions or for why they have not evolved. 'I have found truth, I'm done!!' It's funny how people use their truth as a tool to judge, discriminate and hold prejudices against people, most often without proof or personal experience of any kind. Ok, so funny may not be the right word here, but you get what I mean... This has started my own search for the meaning of truth and an understanding of how it works and why it is so important to us as individuals and society as a whole.
For me, Truth is a dynamic concept, changing depending on circumstance, experience and position. It is what it is based entirely upon the individual's own perceptions and experiences. True, the ideas of the individual can be formed based upon the ideas of the whole, as with religion or cultural ideals, but it is ultimately the responsibility of the individual to perpetuate certain truths.
People use truth, or truths, as a basis for their life philosophies which affect their actions and interactions with others. It is part of my personal truth to honour the Earth and keep it clean, not out of any belief in a mother Goddess or the spiritual nature of the land on which I walk, but as a need to help keep it habitable for future generations. This in turn guides my actions - I am always picking up rubbish in the playground at school. I do this for the Earth first and foremost, the idea of being an example to the students is secondary in my mind. But the philosophy of looking after the planet guides what I do in my daily practice.
Truth can also give you meaning and direction. I had none before I discovered my truth relating to the spiritual nature of my life. My belief in Reincarnation and Karma has helped me to understand why I am here, what I did to create these circumstances (in this life and past ones) and a road map for correction. I do not want to repeat past patterns, and understanding where they came from and the lessons involved helps me to break these and work toward being a better person.
But this still does not address the issue at hand - what is the nature of truth? We know it is changeable, being affected by the perspective of the individual, but there is way more to it.
Truth is a very wide concept, covering both negative and positive aspects of society. Truth can:
- hurt as well as heal
- be hidden or flaunted, and every variation between
- be used to control or set free
- be manipulated or spoken freely
- willingly changed or stubbornly adhered to
- used to a person's advantage or disadvantage
- lived and experienced or ignored
I am sure there are many more variations to the above characteristics, but one thing remains certain for me - honesty is always the best policy. I have recently entered into a very adult relationship where we both speak our truth in every circumstance. We have agreed not to take it personally, but accept that the other might think differently and work within these limitations. There have been many times in recent weeks where I have spoken a truth (diplomatically, of course!) I would once have hidden for fear of hurting the other person, and how refreshing is it! To be able to explain to the person exactly where your head is at (or your heart!), to be completely honest and know that the other person will accept it. There have been times (and probably more to come) where my truth has been challenged (both from him and within myself - mostly because when I speak a truth it seems completely ridiculous and I immediately find another that makes more sense!), but it has been done in a respectful manner. I return this favour to him when I feel I need to challenge his truth. Either way, the main idea remains the same - It is not personal, it's just how I feel at this time. We both understand and respect the changeable nature of truth and work within these limitations as well.
I feel it is important to have a healthy respect for truth and an understanding of how it works. Knowing this can help you to be more respectful of other people while still honouring your own truth. It is also important to understand that another person's truth is not a personal attack on you, but an entirely individual way of looking at things. If it goes against your own truth, discuss it as adults or leave the relationship - one should never actively try to make another's truth fit their own. Here's hoping more people have this same healthy respect......
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Sunday, 2 November 2014
Tuesday, 17 June 2014
Working through the Elements: Air
Something struck me the other night, as I was heading to the
back door to let my cat, Eddie Treebird, outside for what I think was the third
time that night. All the windows and doors were closed and there is no real
draft in my house. As I approached the backdoor, a sliding door with curtains
hanging in front of it, the curtains were moving as if there was a draft or
breeze coming from somewhere. The first thing I thought was ‘ghost’ but this
was too clichéd even for me, so I stopped and waited to see what happened. By
this time I was in front of the curtains and the draft that I had caused by
walking across the room moved them even more and I was unable to determine the
origin of the draft.
It occurred to me then that perhaps the initial cause of the
movement was me. As I moved through the air in the room, it pushed forward
ahead of me and caused the draft both ahead of and behind me, as a boat gliding
across the lake. It got me thinking about the element of Air, that it is all
around us even when it is not moving, it is still there. Sounds ridiculous and
a bit ‘yea, der!’ but these things sometimes have to be learned and understood
through personal experience… I think I took it for granted that when I breathed
in my lungs would fill up with air and I would be able to then breathe out, it
never occurred to me to think where Air came from or where it went. It never
occurred to me to think about what happens when a person walks through Air that
exists in the room or atmosphere (cause that is where it is), if there is an
impact or not. I know people refer to the ‘butterfly effect’ and I think I
understood it, but never really got
it until that moment.
Air is all around us, (thank you Captain Obvious!) even as
we sit it rests against our skin, our clothes, our hair. As we step we part it
with our feet, we move it with our breath, we break it when we reach for
something. The interesting thing is that it just seems to flow with what is
happening in the environment. It does not force the issue, it merely accepts
what is happening to it and acquiesces, allowing the changes to its structure
and position to happen, and then remoulding itself based on the new
information.
I have a new found respect Air, its fluidity, its
adaptability, its availability. I also think that I have begun a relationship
with this element that I will cultivate and look deeper into as I am sure, when
looking at the changes the universe is guiding me to make, that I can learn something
about the traits it possesses that will help me move forward, both spiritually
and physically. I think I also like the idea of reacting to things when they happen
rather than beforehand, living with the impositions or restrictions of others
and not letting it ruin my own integrity, being able to adapt to situations
while not changing who I am and how I work, being able to live in the moment
and be changeable in a positive sense.
This is what Air is for me at this stage. It may change (and
most likely will), but I am willing to work with Air in order to gain the
strength I need in this most unpredictable time I now find myself in. It will
be an interesting journey……
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Thursday, 24 April 2014
Traditional Family Wicca vs Self-Discovery Wicca - A Response
As part of the PBP I have been reading a lot about a variety of subjects. Most of which I get and agree with, others I don't get at all and others I find narrow minded and perhaps a little judgemental...
One such (which I won't name...) was basically saying that people who claim to be part of a family of witches... Well I'm not sure what it was saying really... The post seemed to be full of jealous rage at the fact that others get born into a pagan family, with all the secrets us 'plebs' are fighting to uncover. I definitely get the jealous part, I would love to have an inherited belief system from which to base my current studies on! (although I am well aware of the pitfalls such a life would undoubtedly bring with it... so my jealousy is only in part...) How much time could be saved if I already had the basics under control!! Which herb should be used for which spell, what charm is needed for what situation, what chant or incantation is best and how to write a good one - the mind boggles!! I would be able to really think about the big issues!! That would be nice...
But the truth is, I wasn't born with such a heritage, as far as I know I am the only decidedly pagan person in my family. Sure, my Aunty is great with plants and uses herbs in her cooking all the time and has heaps of crystals that she instinctively knows what to do with, but she would never come out and claim she is pagan nor do the leg work involved!! And I am completely aware that there is a reason for my current family status, if I ever find out what it is, I'll let you know for sure! Just as I am sure there is a reason these people are born into a position of 15th generation witch who survived the inquisition, or the witch trials, or the reformation, or whichever narrow minded event caused persecution to witch and non-witch alike! There is a reason they have access to this level of knowledge and who are we to judge it or rage at it? Be jealous, fine - one can't help that emotion sometimes - but acting upon this emotion and raging about it will only make you look a fool!! So get over it! Or perhaps, befriend them and share your knowledge... If they are not sworn to secrecy that is!!!
But the truth is, I wasn't born with such a heritage, as far as I know I am the only decidedly pagan person in my family. Sure, my Aunty is great with plants and uses herbs in her cooking all the time and has heaps of crystals that she instinctively knows what to do with, but she would never come out and claim she is pagan nor do the leg work involved!! And I am completely aware that there is a reason for my current family status, if I ever find out what it is, I'll let you know for sure! Just as I am sure there is a reason these people are born into a position of 15th generation witch who survived the inquisition, or the witch trials, or the reformation, or whichever narrow minded event caused persecution to witch and non-witch alike! There is a reason they have access to this level of knowledge and who are we to judge it or rage at it? Be jealous, fine - one can't help that emotion sometimes - but acting upon this emotion and raging about it will only make you look a fool!! So get over it! Or perhaps, befriend them and share your knowledge... If they are not sworn to secrecy that is!!!
The other point I remember this particular blogger making was about the person 'born to the family by luck'. I am sorry, but luck had nothing to so with it... Pagans, Wicca and Witches believe in a thing called reincarnation right? As part of this, my belief is that we choose the family we will be born into. This choice is based on a particular need or lesson the individual soul needs at that time. Then there is no luck at all, only the need of the individual soul to be a part of such a heritage! I would now love to be have been born as a 15th generation witch, but I wasn't and I have to trust that this is for a reason... It's probably cause my Mum is the coolest Mum on the planet, and I wouldn't exchange her for anything... (secret brownie points!! lol)
Anyway, the inevitable digression out of the way, I just think that if someone wants to claim such a heritage, and boast about it, then it's their lessons that need learning and we should let them, encourage them and aid them perhaps? Not judge them...
I also think the other thing the blogger had issues with is the ridiculous nature of the names given to some of the traditions... If a family wants to base their faith on unicorns, then who are we to judge? Especially those of us who have never seen one and dispute their existence! I have never seen an alien, but I don't believe they can't exist somewhere... Unicorns are the same. And quite frankly a world with unicorns would be cool, right? So if these people live in such a world, then who am I to argue? Whether their tradition is 1, 5 or 15 generations in the making, it's based on a person's truth and no one knows their truth better than the person believing in it right?? If we start (or continue in some cases) judging people for their beliefs then we become like those people this community professes not to be. We are here to find our truth, not THE truth after all... Besides, the historian in me is well aware there is no such thing as THE truth, as there are always perceptions clouding our view of events... I could list examples, but I am sure you are smart or experienced enough to come up with your own...
I also think the other thing the blogger had issues with is the ridiculous nature of the names given to some of the traditions... If a family wants to base their faith on unicorns, then who are we to judge? Especially those of us who have never seen one and dispute their existence! I have never seen an alien, but I don't believe they can't exist somewhere... Unicorns are the same. And quite frankly a world with unicorns would be cool, right? So if these people live in such a world, then who am I to argue? Whether their tradition is 1, 5 or 15 generations in the making, it's based on a person's truth and no one knows their truth better than the person believing in it right?? If we start (or continue in some cases) judging people for their beliefs then we become like those people this community professes not to be. We are here to find our truth, not THE truth after all... Besides, the historian in me is well aware there is no such thing as THE truth, as there are always perceptions clouding our view of events... I could list examples, but I am sure you are smart or experienced enough to come up with your own...
The point is, if a person claims heritage to a tradition, follows it faithfully and with love and trust, and is doing harm to none, then who are we to criticise?? Everyone's path is their own, feelings of jealousy, rage, shame, ridicule or whatever negativity you have towards them are all well and good - we are human after all! - but it is what you do with these feelings that causes problems...
This world needs less judgement and intolerance and more love and compassion... Just saying... xx
Friday, 21 March 2014
F is for (Janet and Stewart) Farrar!
This instantly piqued my interest when I read it on the prompts for The Pagan Blog Project! I thought I'd just swing by and see what the prompts were, as I again felt like writing something - the spiders in my house always remind me to 'write creatively without limitation' so here I go!!
I was first directed to these authors when my questions about Deity were deeper than 'who does what and in which era or country/continent?' Unfortunately, I purchased my editions of The Witches' God and The Witches Goddess via kindle, which does not mean I enjoyed it any less, it just means that it was more difficult to take notes etc!!
Anyway, my questions about deity had become of a more serious nature, as I have said. I wanted to know where they came from, if and how they were real. I had purchased both the God and Goddess book, but for some reason I chose the God one first, even though it was written second and referred to the Goddess one in the introduction - for a split second I thought I had made the wrong choice. I decided to read ahead, as I had chosen to do it this way for a reason... well, let's just say all of my questions were answered shortly after!! I realised that, yes they are real, they too come from the creation source and my current understanding (although I am well aware it may change any day now) is that they are manifestations of the creation energy out of it's own desire to see itself objectively through the eyes of another. Carl Jung mentions the collective consciousness in his works, and I feel it applies here. To me, the Gods and Goddesses are just ONE manifestation of the creation source. It does not mean that we created the Gods, I would never be so bold, all it means is that there are a variety of ways to get to deity, and none are any less valid than any other (excepting those that use force, coercion, murder or general lies in order to reach deity - but this is just my opinion!). And this was all before I had finished the introduction!
These books also provided a logical (and I am a ruling number 4, I need some level of logic and rationality in my studies!) explanation of the development of both the God and Goddess through time, which helped me to deepen my understanding of the various aspects of deity in it's male/female aspect. I also loved the list of the Gods and Goddesses throughout the world and I have come back to it time and time again to introduce myself to certain deities! I would have liked a deeper description of them, however, the scope of the books just did not allow for this - it would after all have to be larger than an encyclopedia in order to meet this need of mine! It is a good introduction though, to both the concept of the God and Goddess and provides some examples of deities to turn to or to research deeper for your own spiritual nourishment!
Definitely a book for the beginner and expert alike!!!

Wednesday, 22 January 2014
'B is for Beginner' - an amazing blog that needs to be shared!
I have been reading some blogs on Pagan Blog Project 2014 and many have some interesting ideas and advice. One such blog I have found interesting is A Solitary Witch on tumblr.com and I felt compelled to share. The interesting thing is that the basic advice is have a healthy mix of passion and caution, which is always good to have! So, have a read and I hope you get as much from this as I did!!
Blessed Be xx
Blessed Be xx
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Tuesday, 21 January 2014
Chakra Fundamentals: The Base Chakra
I know at first glance, chakras may not appear to be a part
of Paganism, however, it is a part of our emotional and physical well-being, thus for me it fits perfectly! In
this way I feel it is important to have a working knowledge of them, if not a
close affiliation with them. It is part of knowing the self and should be
incorporated into any self discovery journey. There are a lot of people in the
world who are walking around, unbalanced and have no idea why or how to fix it if they are aware. I was one such
person not so long ago.
Chakras
are energy centres all over the physical body that allow for the free flow of energy from feet to crown, and everywhere in between. We
have hundreds of mini chakras all over our body that facilitate this energy flow, however, there are seven main
chakras that govern certain key aspects of our lives. They are the base (or root
chakra), the sacral, the solar plexus, heart, throat, third eye (brow) and crown
chakras.
The first, and possibly the most fundamental to overall
health and well-being, is the base chakra, or in the sanskrit, Muladhara. Its
location varies depending on which source you read, but I usually feel it at the very base of my torso. If sitting down, it is located in the area resting
on the seat. Other works will describe it as being at the base of the spine or
coccyx or the cervix (for women) or perineum (for men), however, if there is one thing I have learnt so far it is that all
things are individual. One thing is certain, it is the first of the main energy
centres and it is situated roughly at the bottom of your torso, the specifics will vary
and you will have to discover this for yourself. One way to do this is to get into
a meditative or contemplative state and ask to become aware of my base chakra.
Sit quietly now and try it! Be aware of any buzzing, or energy pooling in a
particular area. This will be the location of your base chakra! Some people also see them as swirling discs facing the front and back of your body, at vertical to the ground. Mine, however, face from my feet to my head, horizontal to the ground. Again, you will have to discover this for yourself.
Each chakra has a symbol associated with it, usually a
version of the lotus flower. Muladhara is often shown as a lotus flower
with four petals.
Each chakra governs both the physical and emotional body;
any imbalance or issue with your chakras can manifest as a physical pain,
injury or disease. Issues with your base chakra can manifest through the legs, knees, feet and ankles,
bones, large intestine, hips and pelvis, kidneys, sciatic nerve or lower back. Any pain in these areas is a sign that you are experiencing emotional disturbance in one or more
area concerning this chakra.
So what are these issues? The Base chakra is associated with
feelings of belonging (with tribe or community), career and finances, safety
and security, familial law and order, ability to stand up for oneself or any other
material or physical concern. One example may be financial worries manifesting in hips locking or cramps in the legs. I have a particular issue with my
coccyx bone, which I have damaged at least twice in my life. Now when I start
to worry over money or the home, it will ache. It is a timely reminder for me
to take a few seconds to work on this chakra and alleviate any concerns and
worries.
It is easy to rebalance or activate a chakra. One of the
easiest is, after identifying the issue that has caused the ailment or pain,
locate and wear a crystal specifically associated with the chakra. Any red
crystal will do for the base chakra, but of particular note is red jasper, garnet and smoky quartz (these
will usually appear in your standard chakra crystal packs). There is no need to
wear it directly on your base chakra, although doing this in a meditative state
will help to enhance the crystal’s efficiency. You may also breathe in the colour
red into the area of your base chakra and visualise it clearing the negativity from the area. Eating red food
(such as tomatoes, cherries or apples) or drinking red infused water with intention is also another
effective way. The easiest method of balancing or activating this chakra
though, is to wear red underwear! It sits directly on the chakra and is far less noticeable than other methods! And who could forget those Dorothy
inspired red shoes? (sparkles or sequins preferred though optional!) Another discreet way to balance your chakra is to wear red nail polish on your toes... I do this all the time with the intent that it balance my chakra; it seems simple but it works. And you feel pretty too!! All is
intent though, so no matter what you choose to do, be sure to state your
intention when doing it!
Here are some simple ways to maintain your base chakra’s
health on a daily basis:
- Take your off shoes and walk barefoot outside connecting with Mother Earth
- Dancing
- Massage and pedicure
- Gardening or house work with the intention of balancing or opening this chakra
- If possible, have a space within your home that is entirely yours
- Daily short, brisk walks
- Have a routine and stick to it
- Pay bills on time
- Bake bread and peel potatoes for grounding
I have found that a solid base chakra is the foundation for
all psychic or energy work. If your base chakra is closed or imbalanced it is
likely (though not guaranteed) that your other chakras are in the same state.
So start with the basics! Get your physical life in order
first to allow the magickal to enter your life!!
(Most information is gathered from personal experience and discussions with teachers and like minded people, however, a good book to read to get an overall idea of the chakras is Janet Boyer’s The Chakras. Available on Amazon.com or via Kindle.)
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